When a couple with a dispute can sit down and talk about their problem in a productive way, they may be able to resolve their dispute using the “kitchen table” process.

• Involves direct negotiation between the parties
• Works best when parties have equal knowledge of facts and are not emotional
• Works best when legal issues and facts are uncomplicated
• Does not work as well if there is a “power imbalance” (example: one party is more dominant or rigid in his/her views)
• Parties may or may not have lawyers
• Parties may or may not exchange information relevant to the issues
• Parties may or may not employ other experts to assist with information and advice
• Lawyers are normally employed to draft settlement document and appropriate closing documents
• Generally, the most economical way to resolve a dispute